John Peter Sloan

Dear John,
I’m desperately in love with the most handsome, funny and kind young man. There’s just one problem: he’s already happily engaged to another girl. She is cuter than I am, I don’t have any chance. I’m so jealous! I tried to stop thinking about him, but there is no way. He’s just so perfect! What should I do?
Valeria

Forget him! Avoid being in the same places as him. This can only end in tears. Sorry if it’s a cliché, but time will heal. Find somebody who isn’t already attached.

Dear John,
Why can’t men talk about their problems? If you marry someone you should share everything and sometimes I know there is something wrong, but my husband won’t tell me what it is! Why are men like this?
Vale

Maybe his only problem is that you keep asking him if he has any problems! Leave the poor guy alone!